Maybe you’ve never heard the term “revenge spending”, but if you’re married, you probably know what it means. This is the scenario where a husband or wife is upset with the other, so to get back at them, they go out and spend money on something for themselves. I also like to call these “POP’s”, or “pissed-off purchases”. A recent online study conducted by Dr. Bonnie Weil found that the average couple makes an average of four POP’s per year to the tune of $486 a POP! That’s almost $2,000 per year of unplanned expenses that are most likely going on the credit card. A recent Harris poll revealed that:
- 40% of adults in relationships admitted to lying to their partner about spending habits
- 82% said they hide purchases from their partner
- 57% of couple felt that money is used as a means of control in the relationship
No wonder that money problems are the leading cause of divorce! I personally know a couple who used revenge spending repeatedly on each other, and after a few years had racked up over $30,000 in credit card debt! The end result was a personal bankruptcy filing, and later a divorce. It was very sad to see. I guess it should be pretty obvious to all of us that this is not a healthy financial habit to have. But if this has been a part of your marriage, it may be very difficult to break. However, it can be done! But you’ll need to work together.
Controlling your spending through the use of a simple monthly budget is the first step towards a successful financial future. It doesn’t really matter how much money you make each month, you can get out of debt and build wealth. A budget will help you make sure that you spend less than you make, which will allow you to pay off debt and save money.
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